Approaching Uncertainty
This week’s Torah portion, Vayigash,
Reminds us that our lives unfold in mystery.
Sometimes we can see threads of connection
And discern patterns of meaning.
Sometimes all this is,
Makes some kind of sense.
And at other times
It can be impossible
To understand
Or make meaning of anything at all.
This week’s parsha calls us to notice
How we approach uncertainty and fear,
How we manage the unexpected,
And respond to situations that are troubling and painful.
Take notice of the way you tell
Your individual and collective stories,
The parsha teaches,
The narratives we weave can constrict or help open the way.
We can tell our stories in ways that encourage blame and guilt,
That reinforce resentment and pain.
And we can tell our stories in ways
That seek connection
And turn us toward healing.
As we continue to face uncertainty, horror and pain,
May we have the courage to approach
And bow to all we do not know.
And out of the frayed threads our experiences,
Out of our grief and joys,
Disappointments and amazement
May we weave our narratives
Into tapestries that shine with beauty and devotion
And inspire healing and love.
May it be for shalom.
In honor of the winter solstice and this Torah portion of Approaching
Here is a passage from Priest and Poet John O’Donohue, z’l
What you encounter, recognize or discover depends to a large degree on the quality of your approach. Many of the ancient cultures practiced careful rituals of approach.
An encounter of depth and spirit was preceded by careful preparation.
When we approach with reverence, great things decide to approach us.
Our real life comes to the surface and its light awakens
the concealed beauty in things.
When we walk on the earth with reverence, beauty will decide to trust us.
John O'Donohue, “Beauty: The Invisible Embrace”
Blessings to all our friends who will be celebrating Christmas and Kwanza this coming week. May our prayers join together for healing and shalom.